Today’s guest blog post is by Sherry MacDonald, a personal trainer, nutrition coach and owner of Elite Physiques in Lewis Center, Ohio. We met last year at the Bloggers At Midlife Conference and discovered our mutual love of lifting weights, fitness and fashion. Today, Sherry dispels a lot of the exercise myths that those of us who grew up in the era of Jane Fonda, “feel the burn”, shiny tights and legwarmers grew up believing.
The Top 5 Crazy Exercise Myths That Women Need To Know
After being in the health and wellness business for over 20 years I still hear these exercise myths. They just won’t go away.
Let me tell you what I see. I have clients of all ages but mostly over 50. Some have never worked out and some off and on. Either way, many of them come to me in bad shape. They can’t get up and down off of the floor. They have back problems, knee and hip problems and much more. Almost always, after 2 to 3 weeks of training, they are 50 percent better. After a couple of months, they are 80 percent or more better. I see some amazing changes in my over 50’s clients. I have a client who is 68 and in better shape than some 20-year-olds. My clients over 70 train with me 2 days a week, play golf, and walk almost every day.
Everyone can do this. Join the YMCA or buy a workout DVD. Need more motivation, read Cathy’s post about Crossfit and what she learned from it.
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Exercise Myth #1 – Lifting weights will make me big and bulky
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This is the number one comment I hear. New clients come in and tell me, “I want to tone but I don’t want to get big and bulky (B&B)”. So, after telling them, if you don’t want to get B&B then look at your diet. Very few people have the genetics to build lots of muscle and it takes time, heavy lifting, good nutrition. If you want to get lean, lose weight, or change the shape of your body you HAVE TO weight train!
You can’t tone fat so if you don’t build muscle what are you going to tone? Ladies out there over 50, you know how hard it is to build muscle and keep it. The older you get the harder you have to work to keep it. We have to work harder than ever and never stop! When I am 70, I want to be able to go to the store and get 5 bags of 50-pound bird seed and put them in my car like I do now at the young age of 58.
One more thing. Don’t be afraid to go heavy. You won’t increase lean muscle lifting 5-pound dumb bells.
Exercise Myth #2 – No pain no gain
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According to Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, no pain no gain “is an exercise phrase that promises greater value rewards for the price of hard and even painful work”. Did you know this phrase came from Jane Fonda’s aerobic days? She also used the phrase “feel the burn”.
First of all, you should never do an exercise that causes pain. Even if you get halfway through an exercise and you feel pain or a pull, stop. Don’t think you can work through it. Stop the exercise and pick up that muscle group again another day. Second, being sore after your workout is OK if it doesn’t interfere with your other daily activities. If you are sore for more than three days, it’s too much. As we get older it takes longer to recover so give yourself at least 3 days before you work the same muscle group. Listen to your body!
Exercise Myth #3 – Exercising using machines is better than free weights
This is a big one and a pet peeve of mine. Exercising on machines does not let you use the small stabilizing muscles and the machines dictate the way you move. As we get older we need to focus on better balance and working the stabilizers. You can do this using dumbbells and cables. If you work out in a gym, you have probably used the leg extension machine; you sit on it and extend your legs out straight. This is a good example of a machine dictating the way you move. You are fixed into place and your knees can only move one way. We all have different Q angles (the angle formed by lines representing the pull of the quadriceps muscle (upper thigh) and the axis of the patellar tendon (lower shin). These should not be forced to go in only one direction. If you have knee pain or back problems stay far away from this machines! If you are afraid you will get hurt or you will do the exercise wrong using dumbbells then hire a trainer – even if it’s just for a couple of sessions.
Exercise Myth #4 – You have to do cardio to lose weight
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It’s funny how things change over time. Years ago when I used to do step aerobics (remember that?) the research said that cardio was the way to weight loss. Do hour long classes and drop the weight. The longer the better. I spent 2 hours, 6 days a week in the gym. I looked good but I was only 21. Well, today that just isn’t true. The research shows otherwise. It’s true that you burn calories while doing cardio and a short time after. If you have ever looked at how many it is depressing. On the elliptical, I only burn about 152 calories for 30 minutes. That’s an apple worth of calories. Weight training rocks when it comes to burning calories! Not just when you are weight training, but 24 hours a day. The more muscle mass you have the more calories you burn. YES! I see this in one of my trainers, Jack. He is a competitive bodybuilder. When he begins dieting for a show he cuts way back on calories but as he is training harder he can eat more (healthy food) and drop body fat like crazy because his metabolic rate is increasing.
I tell my clients to do cardio to exercise your heart and lungs. Do weight training if you want your body to look better and lose weight.
Exercise Myth #5 – You can get great abs by doing 100 crunches a day
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Not! It’s this simple – if you want nice abs you need to build muscle. Why? Because you can’t tone fat. In order to build muscle you need to overload the muscle. This means using your legs as weights or using weights. You can check out some exercises at Elite Physiques. When using your legs or dumbbells as weight, you will only need to do 2 to 3 sets of 10 reps.
I am not a fan of crunches. They cause forward flexion (bad posture) and there is never a reason to do 100 of anything!
Here’s something for you to remember you can work your abs – everyday but in order to see them you will have to eat a clean diet.
It all comes down to being healthy, looking good and feeling good at any age. What you eat is 80 percent or more important than anything else you can do for your health. It’s really simple. Make time everyday for some kind of exercise and just eat real food!
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Sherry MacDonald
Sherry has worked out for over 35 years! It’s her life. Her passion is teaching others how to eat, move and be healthy. She has owned a personal training studio for the last 19 years. Sherry is an author, photographer, life and nutrition coach, and a Personal trainer. She loves hiking, lifting weights, photography, and animals.
Those myths ARE persistent aren’t they?!?! Thanks for doing your part to eradicate them!
I know – they are so ingrained in our thinking!
Thanks for reading Paula. We all need to share these myths and get everyone working out.
Great post – pinned and shared
Thanks so much, Carol!
Thanks for sharing Carol, everyone needs to workout and stay strong!
Myth #1 is a big one. So many women are reluctant to do strength training for fear they will start to look “like a man…big and bulky”. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Thanks for clearing up that myth …hopefully once and for all.
I thought that for a long time, Darlene! I’ve been lifting weight for 6 years and am not big and bulky!
Thanks for reading Darlene! Stay strong!
Great reminders, Cathy! i Think the biggest myth after 60 is that it is too late to start an exercise program. NOPE…never too late!
I started Crossfit at 52. Another lady that I work out with and I call ourselves the “Bad-Ass Grannies”! You are never to old. I’ve been following your posts on your fitness journey, Pam. You Go Girl!
Pamela, it is never to late. I have clients come to me in their 70’s ready to work out.
Great post and so true! I’ve been lifting weights most of my life, free weights and machines, and it just makes you strong and healthy and keeps those bulges away. And six pack abs? Not good for women. Sharing this in my facebook group, Ditch the Diet Tribe.
You go, Shari! I love lifting weights! Thanks for sharing!
Shari, spread the word. Thanks for sharing!
I love “don’t be afraid to go heavy!” I lift more than almost any other female in my gym. And it’s so cute when the guys are like, “That’s pretty heavy…you might want to start with a little less weight.” Hahahaha!
Love it, Karen! I love to lift heavy too!
Karen, you go girl! Love to here you are not afraid to lift heavy!
Question: What kind of weights/training should a 55 year old woman start with? Do I need a trainer?
Sharon, I would definitely find a class that incorporates weights or pay for a couple of sessions with a trainer. You want to make sure you are doing the right kinds of weights with the correct form to prevent injuries. Once you start, I’ll bet you’ll get hooked! I know I did! I started at 52 and I’m 58 now and going strong!
Sharon, my clients in their 50’s and 60’s do a lot of the same exercises that clients in their 30’s do. Find a good trainer and learn from them and never stop!
Which is exactly why I don’t exercise – lol – thanks for these myth busters.
LOL!!!
What? You don’t know what you are missing. Give it a try.
Despite hearing the myths and learning otherwise over the years, they stay with me. Hearing the reasons behind the myths, I’m sure it will stick better. Great post!
Lois – I am the same way. It’s hard to get old ideas that are ingrained in us out of our heads sometimes!
Lois good to hear. Workout and never stop, you are worth it.
Thank you Sherry and Cathy. I hate working out and I just realized it was because I believed everyone of these Myths. What an eye opener. Thank you again
Michelle – Hope you can find something fun to help you stay in shape. There are lots of options out there!
Michelle, I hope you change your mind and start working out.
Thank you for addressing these myths! I became the healthiest I have ever been when I started lifting free weights. It is all about finding a plan that works for you.
Jennifer – same here. And I love lifting heavy. It makes me feel powerful!
YAH! Stay strong Jennifer!
Thanks for doing your part to dispel these myths that cause women to not reach their full fitness potentials.
It’s crazy how we continue to believe them!
Cardio makes me gain weight, strangely enough. It ups my appetite and I end up putting on the pounds.
I’ve heard that from other people too, Laurie!
That’s why you need to strength train. Number one way to lose weight. I tell my clients to do cardio to work their heart and lungs but, do weight training to lose weight.
Totally agree with these myth busting points Cathy and Sherry. Hopefully your post will encourage those over 50 to keep fit so they can lead a healthy and happy life.
Sue, I hope so too. I see it change people’s lives every day.
Interesting! Thanks for sharing.
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That’s a great post and wonderful tips about how to work out over 50. I’ve been going to a class for people 40 and over that’s different every day and it’s making a huge difference.
Happy to hear that Rebecca! Stay strong!
I hear these all the time! I do yoga, pilates, scuba dive and try to eat right. sigh.
Always good to hear these reminders!
Glad to read all of these and now know that they are just that – myths! Thank you for sharing this post at the Wednesday AIM Link Party. I shared it on my social media sites.
I definitely had the leg warmers and shiny tights! I swim regularly, but realize now that I need to give weight training another try.
Yes, weight training would be great to add to your routine. Swimming is awesome!
Weight training rocks! I knew that, but I learned some other things from this post!
Yes it does! So glad you learned something new, Jean! Sherry knows her stuff!
Great tips–100% agree. Actually, women over 50 should do more strength training than cardio because we start to lose muscle faster than in our younger years. I work with a strength coach and we are in a heavy lifting cycle. I agree with your point that you shouldn’t do something that hurts but there is a big difference between pain and discomfort. Women need to learn the difference. Staying in the comfort zone is never going give anyone improvement.
So true, Wendy! I love heavy lifting!
So true! I completely agree. Nice to meet you through the Sunday link up
Thanks for reading and commenting, Deborah!
Wow! I remember all of these myths and learned so much from this article. I need to add some weight training to my day, even if it’s just a bit. And boy, am I ever happy to hear that 100 crunches aren’t the way to being fit! LOL I remember doing a set of 100 three times a day trying to get a flat belly. That was painful!
No more pushups, Nikki! Get out those weights!
Oh so true; these myths are so persistent and I really needed this today as I have yet to find the motivation to get up and get my workout going!
So glad you were motivated, Joanne!
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Yes! These myths drive me batty. Especially the idea that you need to spent hours slaving away at cardio in order to lose weight! I broke all of these “rules” and finally started to see results.
That’s great, Jessica! So encouraging!
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I had an MRI last summer which showed a rotator cuff tear, bone spur and bursitis in my left shoulder. I could not raise it very high and had a heck of a time putting on a bra. I did not want surgery and started a workout routine after many years of not much exercise. Now I am 95% better. I can put on my bra with no problems and lift my left arm almost as far as my right. Who knew?
It’s amazing what the body can do. So glad you had great success with your exercise routine. So much better than surgery!
You taught me so much in this article. I had no idea. Thank you!
So glad it was educational for you. Sherry did a great job. She know her stuff!
I love working out with free weights, I am 55 and it has transformed my body into something I am happy with, before that I was flabby, weights are so important as we age.
Maria
Maria – I agree. I love weights! Glad to hear you’ve had such great results!
I love this. and am showing it to my teenagers. This is what they believe about exercising, it’s what is perpetuated.
We’ve all been sucked into those myths, Kim! Glad you enjoyed the post. Sherry did a great job!
Great article. Never thought of the machines that way – an eye opener.
Bev
Beverly – I had not thought of machines in that way either. Sherry did a great job explaining it. Thanks for reading and commenting.
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This was an excellent post Cathy! Loved it. Sherry gave some great advice. Going to go follow her now. Hope you are well!
Michelle! Thanks for reading and commenting. Sherry sure knows her stuff!
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Loved this post. It’s true most women believe those myths. I still get strange looks when I tell other women I workout with weights and they ask me if I want to be a bodybuilder 🙂 lol
By the way, that’s a great tip on muscle soreness, that it’s ok as long as it doesn’t interfere with your daily activities.
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Loved this! Thanks for debunking the myths for me!
Nicole – we’ve heard them all, haven’t we? Glad you found some useful information in the post. Sherry did a great job!