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Fun Visit to Jefferson, Texas

At the invitation of Jefferson’s Convention and Visitor’s Bureau, I (along with 10 other Texas travel bloggers) visited this beautiful, historic town.  Jefferson is in the Northeast part of the state, and while I had heard of the annual Jefferson Candlelight Tour of Homes that takes place in December, I didn’t know much else about it.

In the two days I was there, I discovered so many treasures. There is something for everyone! Nature, history, antiques, fun shops and great food. I spent two full days in Jefferson and there are still things I want to go back and see!

Jefferson, Texas for Nature Lovers

Our first day in Jefferson was the perfect “Chamber of Commerce” day and we started it with a beautiful and relaxing Turning Basin Riverboat Tour.

We learned from our knowledgable and entertaining Captain John about the history of this waterway. Jefferson used to be a major port in Texas where steamboats traveling from New Orleans shipped cotton and a variety of other goods.  John is also a wealth of information on the wildlife of the bayou. This was the perfect way to start our trip and set the stage for lots of wonderful things to come!

More for Nature Lovers

Caddo Lake Bayou Tours

Capt. Ron’s Swamp Tours Caddo Lake

 

Jefferson, Texas for History Buffs

With 100+ historical homes and landmarks, history is a BIG part of Jefferson!

Jefferson Historical Society and Museum

Housed in the 1890 former Federal Courthouse and Post Office, the museum is 4 floors of artifacts from Jefferson, Marion County and around the world.

Next door is the R. D. Moses Texas and Pacific Model Railroad.

 

This HO gauge model railroad was built and created over 30 years by R. D. Moses and his friend Jack Luck.  A must see for kids – old and young!

Scarlett O’Hardy’s Gone With the Wind Museum

 

This 1,700 square foot museum features the world’s largest private collection of Gone With the Wind memorabilia, including an autographed first edition of the novel, a Gone With the Wind themed Christmas tree and the original seats from Loew’s Grand Theatre in Atlanta – the site of Gone With the Wind’s world premiere.

 

Bobbie Hardy, who collected everything in the museum, is a wealth of knowledge and a delight to listen to!

 

House of the Seasons is an historic home, built in the 1870’s. This gorgeous house is a fine example of the transition period between the Greek Revival and Victorian styles of architecture. The most unique features of the house are the cupola and the murals. In the cupola, under the picture, each wall contains a different colored stained glass that creates the illusion of the seasons of the year.

If you love architecture and beautifully restored homes, this tour is a must. House of the Seasons also offers Bed & Breakfast accommodations.

Other historic sites to include on your trip:

The Excelsior House Hotel which has been hosting guests since the 1850’s.

The Jay Gould Car – The private railway car of American Railway Developer Jason “Jay” Gould.

 

Jefferson, Texas for Ghost Lovers

Like ghost stories? Interested in the paranormal? Then Jefferson has something for you. Lots of the old homes and buildings boast ghost sightings and just weird occurances that can’t be explained.

The Grove, a home built in 1861 is known as the most haunted house in Texas. And when I say haunted, I don’t mean scary. Just lots of ghost sightings and other unexplained things that happen there.

Mitchell Whittington, local author and owner of the home conducts the tour. He is a fabulous story teller and expert on the history of the home and Jefferson. This tour is a must!

Also check out the Historic Jefferson Ghost Walk Tour.

Dining in Jefferson, Texas

 

Austin Street Bistro – Quaint restaurant open for lunch and dinner. I ate there for lunch and enjoyed their Chicken Salad on a Homemade Oatmeal Molasses Roll. Lots of fresh salads, soups and sandwiches. The Bistro Salad was outstanding.

 

 

Enoch’s Wine and Coffee House – I was in heaven – coffee shop on one side, wine bar on the other. Great coffee drinks including my favorite cappuccino on the coffee bar side. And wine from Enoch’s Stomp Winery on the other.  Along with the wine, we enjoyed a beautiful charcuterie tray.

Stillwater Inn – This fine dining restaurant has been a staple in Jefferson for 25 years. The gourmet onion rings they serve as an appetizer are to die for. Also try their Pecan Encrusted Trout.

McGarity’s Saloon – Don’t let the term “saloon” throw you. This is a kid-friendly restaurant with a fun ambience that specializes in New American dining with international influences. At lunch time – the salads are the star. Try the Iceberg Wedge or Watermelon Salads. Other interesting things on the menu – Bourbon Bacon Mac ‘N Cheese and Starbucks Pork Tenderloin.

Jefferson, Texas Bed and Breakfasts

 

Bed & Breakfasts abound in Jefferson. I stayed at The Green Gables at Jefferson B & B and absolutely loved everything about it! This historic home was built in stages between the 1850’s and 1870’s. It has been beautifully renovated. Accommodations include the Green Gables Suite (where I stayed) or Green Gables Cottage. Both have private entrances.

 

 

Breakfast is served in the sunroom or you can have it served in your room. I opted for the sunroom that was beautifully decorated for fall. Breakfast was delicious and included pastries, a breakfast banana split, mini frittatas, bacon and cinnamon toast. This is a fabulous place to stay and I will be back!

Other recommended B & B’s:

White Oak Manor

Black Swan

Delta Street Inn

Azalea Inn

Shopping in Jefferson, Texas

Jefferson’s brick streets are filled with all kinds of shops for unique gifts, souveniers and antiques. Here are some of my favorites:

Jefferson General Store – What’s a small town without a General Store? Chock full of every kind of candy you can imagine, gifts, souveniers, novelty items. You name it, they have it. My favorite – their Texas Pecan Pralines.

The Old Store – Antiques, gifts, tons of gourmet food items AND 20 different kinds of fudge. Don’t miss the fudge. My favorites –  Chocolate and Chocolate Peanut Butter Fudge.

The Willow Tree Jefferson – Upscale boutique featuring women’s clothing, jewelry and home décor.

Bohn’s Gift Shoppe – Unique gifts including Blackburn jams, jellies & syrups.

Port Jefferson Outpost – Full service diner, coffee bar and mercantile. Gifts, bulk candy, fudge, t-shirts, kitchen goods and more!

So much to see and do in Jefferson, Texas! I could never have imagined it. Enjoy a weekend or a few days. Get away from the rat race and step back to another time. Take a girl’s trip. There is something everyone will enjoy in Jefferson!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fun Visit to Jefferson, Texas was last modified: October 29th, 2019 by Cathy Lawdanski
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Spring Jewelry Trends | How to Accessorize Beautifully

How do you like to accessorize? Do you like big statement necklaces and earrings? Lots of bracelets and rings? Or is your style more minimalistic? There are some great new Spring Jewelry Trends that are all the rage and I’ve asked my friend Karen Monroe from eSBe by Sara Blaine to give us the 411 on the latest styles.

This is not a sponsored post. None of the links in this post are affiliate links. 

Spring Jewelry Trends –  Minimalistic Look in fun Geometric Shapes

Minimalist Geometric Earrings

Spring Jewelry Trends – Celestial

Confetti Earrings because weekends were made for confetti!  Aren’t these so pretty? I love the vibrant red and gold beading with the little stars the end.

  • 14K Gold over Brass design.
  • French wires are 14k Gold over Sterling Silver.
  • Coral, Bronze and Brass seed beads with Star and Heart design elements.
  • Hangs to 3.5 inches.

Gold Paragon Straps Cuff

Spring Jewelry Trends – Threaders are BACK!

Elliotte Threader Earrings

  • Threader style earring.
  • 16K Gold over Brass with clear CZ’s.
  • Hangs 2.5 inches.

Spring Jewelry Trends – Layering Necklaces


The Elliotte Necklace is “layering made easy”.  Three simple necklaces for any neckline with the layering already done for you!

  • 16K Gold over Brass with design elements encrusted with clear CZ’s.
  • Triple necklace.
  • Shortest chain is 15-16 inches and longest chain is 25-26 inches with Lobster closure.

Spring Jewelry Trends – Tassels and Pearls

These Infintas Earrings are so cute with a casual dress, cover-up or swimsuit.

  • 16K Gold over Sterling Silver hoops accented with swirls.
  • Hangs 2 inches.

Wear them with the South Seas Shell Pearl Bracelet and you have the perfect vacation look!

When looking at Spring Jewelry Trends, you may wonder what necklace to wear with certain necklines.

Karen provided this super helpful chart that you can print out and refer to when you’re just not sure!

 

 

About eSBe by Sara Blaine

For the past 20 years, Sara has built a family of both skilled generations of artisans and extraordinary females of all ages.

In 2014, eSBe launched to honor and provide opportunity for these things and people she appreciated so dearly – fine craftsmanship and women looking to enrich their lives.

eSBe offers an alternative to the traditional direct sales model and equips its stylists with product that sells, incentives that matter and immense support to create whatever kind of life and business you want.

Sara has successfully found the happy medium between “the trend” and a timeless elegant piece. Her ability to mix unique colors on the stone color pallet sets her apart from other high-end jewelry designers. Jewelry-wearing is not just an accessory to Sara, but a statement.

With exciting new developments and collections in store for the future, we can’t wait for what’s to come!

Check out all the eSBe by Sara Blaine designs here.

Place you order between now and May 20 and receive 15% off of your first order.  Contact Karen  at fashionbykaren@att.net to redeem your coupon.

Which trend is your favorite?

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How to Make Your Eyelashes Look Longer | Text 4 Ways to Get Longer Looking Lashes | Picture of woman with long brown hair putting on mascara
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How To Make Your Eyelashes Look Longer

“They eyes are the window to the soul”, so they saying goes. And if that’s true, the eyelashes are the adornment that helps draw attention to them. We want our eyelashes to be long and thick. The beauty industry has worked hard to provide ways for us to get what we want! So, if this is what you are looking for, here is How to Make Your Eyelashes Look Longer.

This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase through one of these links, I will make a small commission at no extra cost to you.

Why Your Lashes Aren’t Long

Your lashes are like all the other hair on your body. They fall off naturally and regrow over time. It typically takes four to eight weeks to replace an eyelash that has fallen out.

But there are other reasons your eyelashes aren’t as long and thick as you would like for them to be.

The Natural Aging Process

Just like your skin and hair deteriorate over time, so do your lashes. The older you get, the more your lashes fall out. GREAT…..

Your Mascara

Mascaras, especially waterproof mascaras are very drying, making your lashes brittle and weak. This causes breakage. And these types of mascaras can be difficult to remove, causing even more breakage.

False Eyelashes, Extensions and Eyelash Curlers

It turns out that a lot of things that we do to make our lashes look longer and fuller can actually hinder that process. Taking off your false eyelashes incorrectly. Picking at the last few of your eyelash extensions. Using an eyelash curler too aggressively.

Not Taking Care of Your Eyelash Extensions

If you have eyelash extensions, aftercare is a must. A good eyelash extension professional will sell you a natural lash enhancer that will strengthen & condition your lashes. DON’T SKIP THIS STEP!

How to Make Your Eyelashes Look Longer

 Lengthening Mascara and an Eyelash Curler

Lengthening mascara contains short synthetic fibers like rayon or nylon that attach themselves to the lashes and extends them. Most lengthening mascaras also having ingredients that volumize and curl your lashes. Curling your lashes after applying the mascara will give a more dramatic effect.

Pros:
  • Least expensive method to enhance the appearance of your lashes, making them look longer and fuller.
Cons:
  • Mascara, especially waterproof mascara, can be extremely drying to your eyelashes.
Tips:
    • Use waterproof mascara sparingly.
    • Remove all your eye makeup, including mascara every night with an eye makeup remover that will dissolve and quickly remove your mascara without tugging at your eyes.  My favorites: Rodan + Fields Essentials Complete Eye Makeup Remover.
    • Use a conditioning primer before applying mascara like Jane Iredale PureLash Extender and Conditioner.

    • Choose a good quality eyelash curler and don’t be too aggressive when using it. Here are some that are highly recommended by makeup professionals: Kevyn Aucoin The Eyelash Curler,  Shiseido Eyelash Curler or Surratt Beauty Relevee Lash Curler.

 

  • Favorite Lengthening Mascaras: Fringe Benefits. I started using this a few years ago after I had an allergic reaction to every bit of eye makeup I had been using. This lengthens my lashes and is non-irritating to the sensitive skin around my eyes. My Side of 50 Reader Favorites: Benefit They’re Real Lengthening and 
    Volumizing Mascara, Bobbi Brown Smokey Eye Mascara and 3D Fiber Mascara.

Make Your Eyelashes Longer With Lash Serums

Lash Serums, such as Rodan + Fields Lash Boost contain active ingredients that actually make your lashes grow. In the case of Lash Boost, that ingredient is isopropyl cloprostenate. Other serums have bimatoprost that also stimulates lash growth.  Not only do these active ingredients cause your existing lashes to grow, they also stimulate growth in hair follicles not currently growing lashes.

How to Make Your Eyelashes Look Longer | Picture of Rodan + Fields Lash Boost with text "It'll save you the stress of applying falsies every single day." as seen on InStyle.com

Serums without these active ingredients are usually just lash conditioners which might make your lashes look fuller or longer by hydrating and softening them, but they won’t stimulate growth.

I have used Lash Boost for 6 months and even stopped using it for a while because my lashes got too long! This stuff is that good!

Pros:
  • Lash Serums with the correct active ingredients actually cause lashes to grow.
  • Easy to apply – only once in the evening.
  • No need for lengthening mascara.
Cons:
  • Price. Some think the price of $150 is high. However, when compared to the price and time involved in getting eyelash extensions, this is a bargain! A tube of Lash Boost lasts 2-3 months when used nightly. After your lashes grow to the desired length, you can use it every 2 or 3 nights.
  • In some cases, lash serums can cause minor irritation to the eyelid. This can be avoided by only applying to the lash line of the top lid and wiping off any excess that gets on your eyelid.

Tips:

  • Remove makeup and cleanse face before applying lash serums.
  • Apply on the upper lash line only. Wipe off any excess that gets on your lids.
  • Do not apply any other products around the eyes for 90 seconds after applying lash serums.

There’s lots of variety when it comes to false eyelashes. What they are made of. Eyelash strips or individual lashes. How to apply them – glue or magnet. Yes, magnet*.

What False Eyelashes are made of:

  1. Synthetic Materials. Most false eyelashes are made of a flexible, plastic-like material. Pro: Most affordable – as little as $2 a pair.  Con: Heavy and look more obviously fake because they have an extra shiny finish. Begin to degrade after 4 or 5 wearings.
  2. Animal Lashes. Comes from brushed fur that’s been harvested from a variety of animals, including minks and horses. With proper care, you can wear these up to 20 times. Pro: Fine, soft and easy to curl. Con: Loses shape if exposed to water. Price: $25-$50 a set.
  3. Silk. Not actually made of silk. “Silk” lashes are made of a blend of lightweight synthetic materials. Pro: Can get up to 20 wearings with proper care. In terms of price and appearance, put these in the middle between synthetic and animal lashes.

Sizes of False Eyelashes:

  1. Strips. These lashes conform to the length of your eyelids. You can apply short strips to the outer corner of your eyeliners for a “flared” look. Strips adhere to your lids with glue, tape or magnets.
  2. Individual Lashes. These are actually clusters for 5-10 individual lash hairs that have been glued together. A little tricky to apply, but much more natural looking than strips.
  3. Lashify Lashes. Kind of a cross between eyelash extensions and false eyelashes. They are attached at the base of your real lashes instead of on your eyelash. They are the most realistic looking false eyelashes next to professional extensions. But they are pricey – $125 for the starter kit and replacement lashes are $20

*Magnetic lashes have tiny magnets that line the base of the lash strips. You layer one strip on tops of your upper lash line and while holding it in place, layer the second lash strip on top of the first to activate the two strips’ magnetic attraction.

Another type of magnetic lashes has a magnetic powder in the eyeliner to adhere to the magnets on the lashes.

My friend Jodie at Jodie’s Touch of Style has tried both types of magnetic lashes, without much luck. There is definitely a learning curve in getting them on in the first place and then actually having them stay in place. Going the magnetic lash route definitely requires diligence and patience.

Tips:
  • Take off your lashes every night before you go to bed.
  • Clean them. After taking them off, take a Q-tip soaked in makeup remover and gently brush it along the lash strip.
  • You can apply mascara to your false eyelashes, but know that this will shorten their lifespan.

Make Your Lashes Longer With Lash Extensions

Eyelash extensions are semi-permanent lashes that are hand glued to the top of your eyelashes by a technician.  With proper care, they can last 6-8 weeks until they fall out like your natural lashes do.

Pros:
  • They look natural. They don’t look clumpy or feel heavy.
  • You cut way down on your makeup time, because you may not feel the need to apply eye makeup.
Cons:
  • They are high maintenance. You need to clean and brush them daily with a spoolie brush and apply a lash conditioner.
  • You can’t rub your eyes. If you are a person with allergies, this might be hard.
  • If you want to remove your extensions, you’ll have to have it done at the salon. If you try to pull them off yourself, you’ll harm your natural lashes.
  • You can’t sweat, cry, swim or wash your face for 12-24 hours after getting extensions to the glue will dry.
  • Expensive and time consuming. Extensions can run from $100-$400 depending on the experience of your technician. Fill-ins are $50-$165 depending on how many lashes you need. Plus the entire experience can take up to 2 hours.
  • It can be difficult to apply eyeliner.
  • Reactions to extensions such as redness, itching, irritation and swollen eyelids are pretty common.
Tips:
  • Know what you want. There are lots of choices – natural, cat-eye or wispy. What kind of curl? J (straight lash), D (completely curved) or C (between D and J)? This post outlines all the choices you will have when you go to get extensions.
  • Don’t fall for the mink vs. synthetic sales trap. Salons charge premium prices for “mink” lashes, which aren’t necessarily mink. If they are true mink, the lashes will be thin and wispy and you’ll get a “barely there” look, so why bother? You’re best bet is the synthetic lashes.
  • Never tug at your extensions. This damages your natural lashes.
  • Never use and eyelash curler.
  • Don’t used oil-based eye makeup remover.
  • It’s easy to get an eye infection when going to a salon for extensions. To avoid this, make sure your technician washes her hands between clients, wears gloves, uses sanitary pillow covers and sanitizes all utensils.
  • Before you get your extensions, ask where the glue is made. Request glue made in the U.S. even though they may charge more. Glues made in the U. S. are typically made without formaldehyde, which is a major eye irritant.

So, what method will you use to get longer fuller lashes? For my money, I’ll take Lash Boost and good lengthening mascara any day.

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Walking Cradles Shoe Review | Oasis Perforated Sneakers | Picture of Oasis Perforated Sneakers in Metallic Silver
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Walking Cradles Shoe Review | Oasis Perforated Sneakers

I am so excited to do another Walking Cradles Shoe Review for the Oasis Perforated Sneakers. The Oasis is part of Walking Cradles Metro Collection, a line of sneakers with urban styling. I reviewed the Onyx from this line last fall and I have literally worn this shoe every day since then. I couldn’t wait to try another style from this great collection.

This post is sponsored by Walking Cradles. All opinions are my own. This post also contains affiliate links for your convenience. If you make a purchase through one of these links, I will make a small commission at no extra cost to you.

Walking Cradles Oasis Perforated Sneaker

The Oasis is a leather perforated sneaker. I chose Silver, but it also comes in Almond, Black and Rose Gold.

Here I’m wearing a sweater and jeans which is pretty much what I wear every day. It’s casual and classic. The Oasis gives the outfit a more put together look – much more than my athletic shoes would. And the silver metallic color adds a modern vibe.

It’s amazing what a pair of cute shoes can do for an outfit. But the Oasis doesn’t stop at cute. Oasis has all of the features that make Walking Cradles my favorite brand of shoes for both style and comfort.

  • Removable Tiny Pillows® footbed insoles massage your every step.
  • An antimicrobial sueded fabric sock and lining that are super soft and moisture-wicking, making it optional to wear a sock.
  • The non-compacting cushion bounces back after compression so the cushioning continues wear after wear.
  • The unit bottom is flexible and moves naturally with your foot and it includes built-in tread for slip resistance.
  • Available in many sizes and widths

If you prefer a slip-on sneaker, take a look a the Orleans in Navy, Black, White or Perforated Nubuck AND Black or Sliver Glitter.

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Special Offer From Walking Cradles

Walking Cradles is giving My Side of 50 readers 15% off on any purchase from walkingcradles.com with the code Cathy15! Offer good through May 31, 2019.

And if you order between February 6-17, 2019, you get FREE SHIPPING!

Walking Cradles Metro Collection – Your Purchase Helps Others

Walking Cradles has partnered with Soles4Soles a charity that works to “Wear Out Poverty” by providing gently used shoes, job opportunities and more to poverty-stricken women and children around the world.

Walking Cradles will donate $1 for every purchase from their Metro Collection to Soles4Soles.

A dollar per pair donation might not seem like much, but did you know that for each $1 donated, Soles4Souls is able to ship one pair of shoes to anywhere in the world? That means your purchase of any shoe from the Metro Collection equals one pair of shoes to someone in need!

Here’s what Walking Cradles President, Mark Kemp, Jr. says about his time volunteering at a Sole4Soles shoe distribution event in Cabo, Mexico:

“Soles4Souls does more than just put shoes on peoples feet. The events such as those in Cabos, Mexico, bring industry people from all over the USA together united in service and helping. Shoe business people set aside competition for a few days each year and unite in giving back. Over 80 people measured feet, gave away 5,000 pairs of shoes, 3,000 shirts, and 300+ Bibles. There are real needs for basic necessities to be provided, and I am proud to say Walking Cradles has stepped forward and joined New Balance, Fishers of Men, and McCulloch’s Wide Shoes in serving  the mission of Soles4Souls.”

Before blogging, I served in the non-profit sector for 25 years.  I love partnering with and patronizing companies like Walking Cradles who are committed to giving back to help those in need.

Here are some of my other favorites from Walking Cradles. I actually own all of these great shoes and they are now on sale!

Neve: Olive Roughout Leather Bootie – See my review here.

Shine Leopard Booties

Regent Pumps in Wine Suede/Leather

Goodwin: Ivory Cut Snake Print Leather Booties

Heist Booties – Black Soft Leather or Black or Brown Snake Print

Rosie – a low heeled pump for dressy occasions. Comes in Black or Silver Multi Snake Print

Photos by: Sandra Lynch Photography

Makeup and Hair by: Janet Herrera

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Best Maine Restaurants | Favorites in Portland, Rockland and Bar Harbor

When we visited Maine, I ate lobster every day. Boiled Lobster, Lobster Rolls, Lobster Salad, Lobster Bisque, Lobster Wrap. Every. Day. And I loved it. I never got tired of it. What can I say? I LOVE Lobster! But there are plenty of great places to eat with all kinds of food. Thanks to a little research and recommendations from a friend who is a Maine resident AND a foodie, we didn’t have a bad meal the whole time we were there. So today I offer you my recommendations for the Best Maine Restaurants.

Best Restaurants in Portland, Maine

Becky’s Diner

Our vacation in Maine started in Portland. Our first morning there, we had the option of eating at the high priced and and not all that appealing breakfast buffet in our hotel.  That wouldn’t do, so we asked one of the employees at the front desk for a recommendation. He sent us on a short walk down to the waterfront where we had the most delicious breakfast at Becky’s Diner.

 

This family-owned establishment was featured in Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives. It’s not a fancy place. It’s obvious that the locals eat there.  First-responders, fishermen, young professionals, families.

There was a  slight wait to get in, but we took a table at the counter, which was great for people watching. When we sat down we were served coffee in these huge, substantial (heavy) mugs. I loved the vibe of the place.

We didn’t get fancy with our order – eggs, bacon, sausage and an English muffin – all cooked to perfection. But the highlight for me was that the sausage they served was Italian sausage – some of the best I’ve ever tasted.

And the price! Tony and I got out of there for $14! For two full breakfasts and coffee! I think we’d pay more for that same breakfast at our local Denny’s.

Great food. Great service. Great price.

Bard Coffee

After sightseeing later that afternoon, it was time for a coffee break, so we stopped in at Bard Coffee. I tried Nitrogen Cold Brew for the first time and it was so delicious and smooth. The coffee shop itself isn’t much to speak of. Not a lot of extras like you would find at a Starbucks, but really good coffee. And they had a beautiful sitting area with some big trees outside. Perfect for enjoying a nice day and looking at the old historic buildings in downtown Portland.

Scales Restaurant

Scales was highly recommended by my friend who lives in the Portland area and it did not disappoint. It’s located on the wharf amid a lot of restaurants and bars and LITTLE parking, so walk or take an Uber. Their website says they offer complimentary valet parking during the dinner hour, so check on that if you plan to drive.

Since this is such a popular place, I made a reservation online several weeks before.They asked if we were celebrating a special occasion and I told them we were celebrating my 60th birthday.

The restaurant has sort of an industrial decor. Lots of light, open space and fresh seafood on display. It was crowded and the tables were very close together. We were seated in the back, right by the kitchen door. When I asked to be moved to a different table, they graciously accommodated us.

We began with some delicious cocktails and looked at the appetizer menu which featured the classics you would expect like steamed clams and oysters. But they also offered several items with a twist – Grilled Octopus with Chorizo and Fried Squid with Cherry Peppers. We split the Smoked Bluefish Pate which was made with grilled poblano pepper relish and served on toasted sourdough. To. Die. For.

Our entrees were more traditional. Boiled Lobster for me and Fish & Chips for Tony. Both were delightful.

After dinner they served us a special birthday dessert, which was not totally unexpected. But what was a surprise was this nice note and visit from the manager who was also a fellow Texan. Small world. We had a great experience at Scales and I’d go back there any time!

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Lunch and Coffee in Rockland, Maine

Hill’s Seafood Company Restaurant and Bar

The next day, we started driving up the coast to Bar Harbor and got hungry for lunch around Rockland. Our recommendation for lunch came from good old YELP – Hill’s Seafood Company. We sat outside where we could see the marina and enjoyed Lobster Salad. Super fresh and chock full of lobster.

Rock City Coffee

After lunch, we walked next door to Rock City Coffee. They roast their coffee right on the premises and the place smells divine. I got my after lunch caffeine jolt and picked up a pound of freshly ground coffee to take with us to our rental in Bar Harbor. Delicious, robust coffee that comes in lots of varieties.

Best Restaurants in Bar Harbor, Maine

We spent most of our time in lovely Bar Harbor and had some wonderful meals there.

Coffee Hound Coffee Bar

Coffee Hound serves specialty coffee and artisan edibles. They are very knowledgable about coffee and get theirs from a local Maine roaster. SO FRESH. I had a delicious iced coffee there. My Maine friend says their Lobster Rolls are the best in Bar Harbor!

Travelin’ Lobster

 

This quaint, family -owned Lobster Pound is a little shack with a friendly staff and outdoor seating under some gorgeous trees.

They have traditional Maine Lobster Rolls. I enjoyed their customer favorite The Butter Sautéed Lobster Roll that is 5 oz. lobster meat sautéed in butter and served on a brioche bun. OMG it was good!

I paired that with a Belgian White from Allagash Brewery, a local Maine Brewery. In fact I had several of these beers on our trip! So good!

The Terrace Grille at the Bar Harbor Inn

This outdoor cafe that sits right on Frenchman’s Bay is the perfect spot for lunch, appetizers and cocktails. The views are stunning. We enjoyed a couple of happy hours at The Terrace Grille. The Blueberry Juniper Cocktail is a gin-based cocktail with fresh blueberries. Get it! It’s so refreshing.

Galyn’s Restaurant

Located near the pier in Bar Harbor, Galyn’s serves fresh seafood and hand cut steaks. The decor with beautiful dark paneling, soft yellow lighting and leather chairs speaks old fashioned steakhouse to me. In fact, when we walked in after a day of sightseeing in our shorts and jeans, I feared that we were WAY underdressed for the venue.

The staff could not have been more welcoming and assured us that we were dressed just fine. They seated us upstairs at a table by the window overlooking Frenchman’s Bay.

I had the Lobster Dinner (What else? I told you I had lobster every day) with a side of Lobster Bisque and Tony had salmon. Both were perfectly cooked and beautifully presented.

We had a great culinary adventure in Maine, thanks to some research, recommendations from friends, YELP reviews and some good luck. How do you find good restaurants when you’re on the road?

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Best Skin Hydration Products | My Favorites to Moisturize Dry Skin

It’s COLD outside. That means anytime you spend outside your skin is exposed to brutally cold air and wind. And any time you spend inside your skin is affected by air that is hot and dry.  Resulting in skin that is woefully dehydrated. Even living on the Texas Gulf Coast with all of it’s humidity doesn’t make me immune to dry skin. So here is my list of the Best Skin Hydration Products. These are the ones I use every day.

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Why You Should Hydrate Your Skin

Right now, your skin is dehydrated. No matter how much water you drink.  So you need to use products that will hydrate your skin and keep it hydrated.

Why? Because well-hydrated skin is more resilient. Hydrated skin will remain flexible and allow your protective lipid barrier to remain intact while keeping moisture in. Hydrated skin is better protected from environmental factors, UV radiation, germs and irritants!

And it starts with what you use when you shower. “They” say to avoid hot showers, so I’ll say it too. But do as I say, not as I do. I LOVE a super-hot shower! Especially when it’s cold outside. But what I use when I shower is this doTerra Moisturizing Body Bar. I used to use Caress Body Bars and Body Wash. Super creamy, but I don’t really know what they did to hydrate my skin, even though I liked it.

Then my sister gave me one of these doTerra Moisturizing Body Bars for Christmas one year, which I thought was weird because in the package she also included some of their hand soap and toothpaste. Was she trying to tell me something? And then I used it. This Doterra Bar is not like anything I have ever used before.

It looks like soap, but it doesn’t feel like soap.  There are no harsh surfactants in it. It’s infused with Jojoba seed oil, vegetable derived glycerin and aloe vera juice. It just leaves your skin feeling clean and moisturized.

Rodan + Fields Active Hydration Body Replenish*

This is an ultra-hydrating body moisturizer that I put on damp skin right out of the shower.  It has hyaluronic acid which holds up to 1,000 times it’s weight in water and helps PREVENT future moisture loss. It’s light, creamy, non-greasy and absorbs quickly. Which is something I want when I’m trying to get dressed and out the door in the morning.

Rodan + Fields Active Hydration Serum*

I have been using this serum for a year and my skin loves it. If I was down to my last dime and had to decide between this serum and paying the mortgage, I would seriously get this serum! Active Hydration Serum is an oil-free serum that raises the level of your skin’s hydration 200% on the first application and protects your skin from losing moisture for 8 hours.

You use it AFTER cleansing and toning and BEFORE you apply your moisturizer. Active Hydration Serum balances your skin’s moisture levels and prepares it to better receive any products you layer on after it, boosting their performance. Seriously – you have to try this!

Rodan + Fields Active Hydration Bright Eye Complex*

This gel eye cream is for the thin, fragile skin around your eyes, often the first place to show signs of stress and fatigue. Over time, it improves the appearance of dark circle and under eye puffiness.

Rodan + Fields Radiant Defense Perfecting Liquid Broad Spectrum SPF 30*

This is a new product I have added to my hydration arsenal. Radiant Defense is considered a Dermacosmetic because it is formulated with anti-oxidants and protects against environmental aggressors. It also helps protect your skin’s moisture barrier. I wear it even on my non-makeup days, just because it feels so good on my face. And after all that hydrating, I want to continue to protect that moisture barrier.

Radiant Defense is very lightweight. I use it in place of foundation. The coverage is buildable so you can have as little or as much coverage as you want.

If you want a sample of Radiant Defense, tell me in the comments and I’ll send you one! It comes in six shades.

Hydration for Your Hands and Feet

I put on hand lotion several times a day, but I still find that my cuticles get dry and start looking bad. When I went from my acrylics back to natural nails (read about that here), I started using this double whammy:

Deborah Lippmann It’s A Miracle Cuticle Oil followed by Juara Coconut Illipe Hand & Nail Balm.

First I apply the cuticle oil and rub it into my cuticles. I follow it up with the Juara, rubbing it into my cuticles first and then rub the excess into my hands. The oil penetrates the nail bed, keeping my nails healthy and the Juara hydrates, plumps, brightens and conditions my cuticles.  The Juara is very thick. Not like a traditional hand lotion or cream, so I don’t keep it by the sink to use after washing my hands. I try to do this process in the evening before bed.

I hate the way my heels and feet get all dry and cracked looking between pedicures, so I started using Sol de Janeiro Samba Foot Fetish Cream. It comes with a board to smooth and exfoliate the dry skin on your feet. Then you rub the cream into them. It absorbs quickly and if I am consistent, my feet stay looking great all the time.


* Rodan + Fields is offering this limited time hydration special. Purchase Active Hydration Body Replenish, Active Hydration Serum and a Regimen and receive 20% off. Contact me and I can tell you how to get 10% more off!  cathy@mysideof50.com. Offer expires January 31, 2019.

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Women’s Winter Coats On Sale | Beautiful Coats for Women 50+

It’s the middle of winter and it’s COLD outside. Not only is it COAT season, but it’s also the best time to buy Women’s Winter Coats on Sale. So I’ve put together this post featuring my favorite fashion bloggers wearing all types of winter coats. Take a look. Get inspired. Shop the sales to get the best buys on winter coats!

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Rain Coats and the Classic Trench Coats

Here in Texas, we do have some days that require a heavy coat.  But more often than not, it seems like we need a raincoat in winter. Something to keep us both warm and dry.

Beth from Style At A Certain Age is kicking up her heels in this bright and cheery raincoat from Talbots.  The hood on the back means you might not need to take your umbrella. And it’s light weight makes it the perfect raincoat to wear year round.

 

Alie from Wardrobe Oxygen is wearing a Classic Trench from Universal Standard, which is another option for weather that is rainy and cold. Many trench coats feature a zip out lining, which make them great for year-round wear.

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Leopard Coats

Leopard is everywhere! Check out these coats!

Isn’t this shot of Meri from @pro.age.style just stunning?  She wears her leopard coat with skinny black pants and  boots topped off with a goldenrod beret. So European!

Did you know that leopard is a neutral? Reagan from Nifty 50 Fabulous is wearing a black/gray/white leopard print with a red sweater and plaid scarf. Pattern mixing at it’s best!

Coats That Show Your Personality

Misja is a 50+ Dutch fashion photographer and blogger. The details on this coat are so unique! One of the sleeve is quilted. The neutral geometric design goes with everything. And her floral headband just makes the whole look!

Teddy Bear Coats


Ever wonder why coats like this are called Teddy Bear Coats? It’s because the fabric looks the same as the kind they used to make old-fashioned teddy bears out of.  In her post on Elegantly Dressed and Stylish, Jess pairs this gorgeous rust colored teddy bear coat with leopard and different shades of brown. This look has so much visual interest with the variety of textures, solids and patterns.

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The Car Coat

I have not heard or used the term “car coat” for years, but that’s what I immediately thought when I saw Suzanne in this pretty plaid coat in her post on Crazy Blonde Life.  Back in the 20’s when cars were becoming more mainstream, driving was considered an outdoor sport. So if you were in a car, you wore your “car coat” to keep you warm and keep the dust off your clothes. Back then, the car coat was usually longer. Today they are shorter – like this one that sits right at the hip. Did you notice the fur hood?

Puffer Coats

 

Puffer Coats like this one that Jodie from Jodie’s Touch of Style is wearing are quilted coats that are filled with down insulation or synthetic fibers for maximum warmth. The old style of puffer coat tended to look really bulky. Really, it’s only function was warmth. But this one is sleek and stylish. The belt shows off Jodie’s waist and the different types and directions of the quilting make a very flattering silhouette.

Women's Winter Coats on Sale | Beautiful Coats for Women 50+ | Woman wearing glasses in gray puffer coat with hoot. Also wearing red gloves

Women’s Winter Coats on Sale

 

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Gifts for Empty Nest Moms | Ideas for Christmas, Birthdays and Mother’s Day

You’re grown, maybe with a family of your own. You don’t live at home anymore and your mom is an empty nester. Gift giving can be challenging. What can you give your mom that she doesn’t already have? She doesn’t need anything. She can go out and buy whatever she wants because she’s done raising you. But it’s Christmas or some other gift giving occasion and you want to honor her with something. I’ve got you covered. Check out these Gifts for Empty Nest Moms.

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Gift Ideas for Empty Nest Moms – Experiences

When I started doing the research for this post, I went to the best focus group of empty-nesters I know – the MySideof50 Facebook Group. Some in the group commented that they are down-sizing and don’t want THINGS! They want EXPERIENCES. And I would add that if they get to share that experience with YOU, that’s a big plus!

Empty Nest Christmas ideas in this category would include tickets to events like concerts, plays and sporting events. Is their favorite artist coming to town? What about that Broadway musical that’s on tour? Present those tickets wrapped with a CD or iTunes Gift Card. Or for tickets to a sporting event, wrap those up with a jersey or stadium bag.

Pampering experiences such as gift certificates for massages or facials are always welcome. Wrap the massage gift certificate with this super soft Hug Me Cardi from Soft Surroundings. I have this cardi and it’s my winter go-to loungewear for cold days.

Gift cards for facials can be given with these products that will make her skin feel great BEYOND the facial….

Rodan and Fields Active Hydration Serum This oil-free serum delivers all-day hydration and boosts the performance of products layered on top. This is my must-have skincare product!

Rodan and Fields ENHANCEMENTS Micro-Dermabrasion Paste – A micro-dermabrasion exfoliator for more vibrant and younger-looking skin. I use it on my face every other day. It can also be used on elbows, knees and other rough patches of skin.

 

 

Gifts for Empty Nest Parents Who Love To Travel

How about airline tickets? Or if that is cost-prohibitive, transfer some of the miles you’ve accumulated or give them a buddy pass. Check with your airline to see what they provide and how you can do this. And make sure they have the latest travel gear:

A Spinner Carry-On Bag

I bought this Travelpro Luggage Maxlite Expandable Suitcase for myself this year. It is roomy, lightweight and a great price. Also comes in lots of colors!

Packing Cubes

Y’ALL! These packing cubes have changed my life. I received them as a birthday gift and am amazed at how much more I can fit in a suitcase AND have my clothes arrive UNWRINKLED when I use these packing cubes from eBags.

I even have a tutorial on how to pack for a weekend with packing cubes!

This tote from Fossil is the perfect for travel. I take it whenever I travel because it is sturdy and roomy. It hold everything I would normally carry in my purse plus my snacks, water bottle, iPad and Laptop.  AND it still zips up!

Does your Empty Nest Mom Like to Read?

You can order a book by her favorite author on Amazon. Check out some of my favorite books here.

OR

Get her a membership to Kindle Unlimited where she can choose from thousands of titles to read for FREE each month.

Do your Empty Nest Parents prefer to listen to audio books while they travel or exercise? Give them a subscription to Audible.

Other Gift Suggestions from the Empty Nest Moms I Know

A beautiful throw like this La Parisienne Faux Fur Throw from Soft Surroundings. Soft, warm and luxurious, she will love this throw that comes in the most gorgeous colors.

 

An Instant Pot  Which is probably the most requested gift of the season. And while your at it, pick up an Instant Pot Cookbook so she’ll have lots of recipe ideas at her fingertips!

 

Mom would LOVE Briar Pearl Bib Necklace. I know because I LOVE mine and it goes with so many items in my wardrobe.

So …. what did you choose for your Empty Nest Mom?

Empty Nest Moms – Which is your favorite? What would you add to this list?

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Makeup Gift Ideas | Gifts for Your Millennial Girl

 

Amy and Allison are my millennial daughters. And without fail, whenever I ask them for a wish list for their birthdays or Christmas, they ALWAYS ask for makeup.  So I asked them to give me their top picks for Makeup Gift Ideas. Their suggestions would make perfects gifts for your millennial girl!

My daughters like everything about makeup. Trying it on, watching tutorials, shopping for it. In fact, on our recent trip to Las Vegas, there was a Sephora in our hotel and they spent a lot of time just looking at…makeup! Since they are mothers of young children, having the luxury of some “no kid” time in a makeup store was pretty awesome.

Makeup Gift Ideas | Picture of two millennial women

You’ll notice that I said they spent a lot of time LOOKING at makeup. That’s because many of their top picks are out of the typical millennial’s price range. So they ask for me to get them their favorites for birthdays or Christmas. Take a look at these “Best Makeup Gifts for Her” because it’s not only millennials who like nice makeup.

Makeup Gift Ideas for Preparation and Application


Dr. Jart+ Mask Heroes Face Savers

Masks are all the rage these days and my girls LOVE them. And they are the perfect way to prepare your face for your makeup. The set has 6 of Dr. Jart’s best selling masks. You could even divide up the set and give all the ladies on your list one of the masks as a stocking stuffer!

Beauty Blender Sweet Indulgence Set

Beauty Blenders are the premiere makeup applicator that ensures a streak free application of foundation, powder and any other complexion product. This set includes 4 Beauty Blenders and Beauty Blender Cleansers to keep the blender clean and in tip top condition. Amy SWEARS by her Beauty Blender.

 

Best Makeup Gifts for Her

 

Stunna Lip Paint Longwear Fluid Lip Color – Fenty Beauty by Rihanna  

There are several color choices, but Uncensored is the perfect universal red for all skin tones.

Two-Faced Better Than Sex Mascara

Volumizing mascara with a brush that separates, curls and coats lashes. And it’s not just the millennials who love this stuff! I’ve seen beauty bloggers of ALL ages rave about this mascara.

Kat Von D Tattoo Liner

Don’t worry – it doesn’t tattoo your eyes. It just has a great brush that makes a precision application easy!

Anastasia Beverly Hills Soft Glam Eye Shadow Palette

14 shades, including matte and shimmer take her from day to night.

Anastasia Beverly Hills Dream Glow Kit

These are highlighters than can be used over eyeshadow or on their own to create an iridescent or metallic look.

Moroccan Spice Eyeshadow Palette from Fenty Beauty by Riahanna

16 high quality shades from matte to shimmer.

Milk Makeup Lip+Cheek

One product, two uses. Allison says this is the perfect product for the mother of a toddler who is on the go.  A couple of swipes gives you a little color and no one would ever guess what it took for you to get out the door with your little bundle of joy!

Makeup Gift Ideas to Finish Her Look

Gloss Bomb Universal Lip Luminizer – Fenty Beauty by Rihanna
Goes over lip color to add a beautiful shine. You’ll notice several items on this list are Fenty Beauty by Rihanna. The girls just love this line and say the makeup is so high quality and long lasting.
Urban Decay All Nighter Long-Lasting Makeup Setting Spray
This is a weightless spray that keeps your makeup looking fresh for up to 16 hours. And yes – it really does!
Stila Aura Alight Glitter & Glow Highlighter and Liquid Eyeshadow Set
This set of 2 highlighters and 4 liquid eyeshadows adds glitter and shine to the face and eyes.
Laura Mercier Transluscent Loose Setting Powder
Silky powder with just a touch of sheer coverage to set her makeup for all day wear.
What do you think? What beauty products do your millennials just rave about? I’ll bet if you’re like me, you’ve found a few on this list that you are going to pick up for yourself!
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13 Super Stylish Ways to Wear A Scarf

Scarves. My first memory of a woman wearing a scarf was of my mom wearing one on her head to keep her hair from getting messed up on a windy day. Do you remember those days back in the 60’s? When I was in college in the 70’s scarves were all the rage. I remember wearing them tied in a knot around my neck. I don’t remember us tying them many other ways. But today, there is no end of ways to use scarves as an accessory – a beautiful way to add color and style to any outfit. And here is how some of my favorite fashion bloggers are styling their scarves. 13 Super Stylish Ways to Wear A Scarf.

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Scarves come in all shapes and sizes these days. The long scarf, blanket scarf, short scarf, infinity scarf.  There are beautiful scarves just for looks and their are scarves that keep you warm. Silk scarves, cotton scarves, fleece, wool and chunky knitted scarves. And they come in a variety of price points from  $10.99 to up to hundreds of dollars for a designer scarf.

You can tie a scarf around your neck, drape it around your shoulders, tie it on your purse or wear it as a vest. Talk about a versatile wardrobe item! Do you have a favorite way to wear a scarf?

How to Wear a Long Scarf

Long scarves are fun because there is enough fabric there to tie it into all kinds of intricate designs if you are so inclined. But these days, I’m seeing more and more women wear long scarves in a lose and casual way.

Nancy from Jodie’s Touch of Style rolls hers loosely around her neck and then lets it hang. That roll provided a little texture to her outfit.

 

Pam from Over 50 Feeling 40 does a similar roll but adds an extra loop in there. Don’t you love the dramatic color of Pam’s scarf? A necklace with her top would have been great, but that scarf adds a certain flair and totally changes the look of her outfit.

Alie from Wardrobe Oxygen also did a simple wrap and drape to her animal print scarf. I love how she paired her animal print scarf with her plaid blazer. Scarves are a great way to ”ease into” pattern mixing.

Charlotte from Jodie’s Touch of Style used a scarf clip to style her scarf.

 Julia from When the Girls Rule just tied hers into a simple square knot.

Leaving the scarf long like the ladies did in both of these pictures draws your eye up and down creating the illusion of length. And there are lots of choices of pretty scarf clips!

How to Wear A Short Scarf

 

 

Jodie ties her short scarf in a knot at her neck. I love how she chose a contrasting color to go with her sassy off the shoulder top!

 


Darlene from Aquamarina Style ties her short scarf like a bandana and wears it two ways.
Top picture: Knot in the front and tail down the back.

Bottom picture: Knot to one side, tail to to the other side.

Super casual, yet adds that finishing touch to a plain tee.

How to Wear A Wrap Scarf


Wrap scarves also come in lots of sizes. This large one that Darlene is wearing has a design that is made for wearing as a wrap – can you see it? Darlene just draped it around her shoulders and belted it. Such a great look.

Julia wears her pretty fall floral scarf as a simple wrap. The pattern adds interest to her basic black or navy dress.

How to Wear a Blanket Scarf

Beautiful Carrie from Curly Crafty Mom is not in the group of women we would call “midlife”. But I couldn’t resist showing you her gorgeous plaid blanket scarf styled over her maxi dress. You can wrap a blanket scarf in a lot of different ways. Carrie styled it with the tail pointing down the front.

Other Fun Ways to Style A Scarf

Allie wears her scarf as a belt in the super sophisticated look.

Julia ties her scarf to the handle of her purse.

The possibilities are endless. Put some of the basic pieces in your wardrobe together, mix in a few scarves and you have multiplied the number of looks in your wardrobe.

I hope this post gave you some great ideas on ways to style your scarves. Need more?

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Here are 2 great ways to wear a scarf! Allie from Wardrobe Oxygen uses her animal print scarf as a belt. Jodie from Jodie’s Touch of Style does a simple square not around her neck!

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