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Bags and Purses for Big Events

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Last month I attended a comedy show (John Crist – clean and hilarious. Watch his special here.) at a performing arts venue with a friend and my daughters.

Prior to the event, I went on the venue’s website and saw that bags larger than 4″ x 6″ would not be allowed.

4″ x 6″?  Do you think it was a man who came up with that size?

Even my evening bags weren’t even that small, so I ended up putting my lipstick, credit cards and other necessities in a quart zip lock bag.

The rest of the girls just took small bags.

We were greeted by an official in the parking lot who had a 4″ x 6″ template to measure bags.

Everyone but me was told that they had to leave their bags in the car because they were too big.

My friend’s bag was just 1/2″ over!!!

When we got to the door, our bags were measured again and searched.

I understand about the security concerns we have these days, but a tiny 4″ x 6″ bag seems a bit like overkill.

 

 

Different Venues | Different Sizes

When I got home, I did some research on what size bags were allowed at the different venues in Houston.

We have 3 major sports venues. All will allow different size bags. Most want them to be clear.

Most of the other arts venues don’t have size requirements…yet.

So I put together this post with different sizes and types of bags for events.

Keep in mind….no one sent me anything when I purchased my tickets that there was a size limit on bags. If I had not looked at the website and ran across that information, I would not have known until I arrived.

Moral of the story:  check your venues website for their bag requirements before you go.

 

 

Small Bags for Big Events

 

Small Zip Wallet

 

 

This small zip wallet by A New Day at Target is the only one I found  that was small enough for the venue that had the 4″ x 6″ size requirement.

Comes in 5 colors.

Dimensions: 3.5″ x 4″  x .88″

Big enough for your credit card and maybe a lipstick. I guess you need to put your phone in your pocket.

 

Vince Camuto Convertible Leather Travel Wallet

 

 

 

This is so cute!

It has a removable strap so you can wear it as a cross body or wristlet.

4.5″ x 8.25″ x .75″

 

Crossbody Cell Phone Purse

 

Cute and functional. Has a clear window so that you can see your phone for messages & notifications without taking it out of your purse.

Comes in  5 colors.

8.2″ x 1.1″ x 4.5″

 

 

Clear Bags for Big Events

 

Clear Stadium Approved Crossbody Bag

 

 

My daughter is borrowing this one from me for the Backstreet Boys Concert this week. It’s at an outdoor venue that requires clear bags.

10″ x 9″

Big enough for cellphone makeup and wallet.

Frosted inner pocket for things you want to keep private.

 

Stadium Approved Clear Tote

 

 

12″ x 12″ x 6″

Big enough to hold everything you would take in your purse.

Comes in 15  colors.

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Wide Leg Crops for Women Over 50

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What do you think of the wide leg pants trend? I believe we used to refer to them as “bell bottoms”.

I remember my bell bottoms being as wide and bell shaped as possible at the bottom.

Long enough to drag the ground.

Sitting super low on my hips with a belt.

And styled with a crop top, tube top or a top that was tied up in some way.

What do they say? Everything old is new again!

This summer’s variation includes wide leg crops.

Wide Leg Crops – It’s All About Proportion

 

I tried on several pair of wide leg crops before deciding on this pair from Macy’s.

It’s their INC brand. High waisted with some stretch. I am wearing size 16.

The leg flares gradually from the hip and it’s not super wide at the bottom.

From the styles I tried, I found that the length, where the flair started and how wide it was at the bottom varied greatly.

You will have to try several pair to see which one is right for you.

Pants | Top | Sandals | Necklace (similar)

Tops for your Wide Leg Crops

Since your crops are wider on the bottom, it’s important to balance that out with a more fitted top.

I am wearing a fitted tee and and tailored denim jacket.

Top | Jacket | Pants | Kicks (similar)| Earrings

If you are wearing a looser or flowy top, you can try a front tuck, half tuck or tie it up to give your waist some definition.

With this top, I looped it through my belt loop then tucked it up under my shirt.

Top (Stitch Fix*- shopped my closet) | Pants | Sandals | Earrings

Shoes to Wear with Wide Leg Crops

To add length to the leg, I opted for neutral shoes in all of these looks.

This SAS Marina Sandal is so comfortable. Velcro straps so you can adjust it for just the right fit.

Great arch support.

Tread on the sole for stability.

And the sparkly, metallic color is a fun way to update your look.

Comes in 8 colors.

Did you notice my earrings? This is my favorite Amazon find of the week. 4 pair of these raffia/rattan earrings for less than $15.

Which look is your favorite?

*As I’ve been shopping my closet more, I’ve noticed that a lot of pieces that look as good as when they were purchased are from StitchFix. I wear them year after year in different ways.

Wreath

 

Wide Leg Crops for Women Over 50 was last modified: June 7th, 2022 by Cathy Lawdanski
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Embroidered Fashion for Women Over 50

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Have you noticed more embroidery on clothes this season?

It seems to be a trend.

And I love this Embroidered Ruched Sleeve Top from Cato Fashions. (Comes in Plus Size)

I’m wearing a large.

The v-neck is flattering, the embroidered neckline is beautiful and the colors are ones that can be worn year round – not just spring and summer.

Which is good news for us Texas girls and those of you who don’t see real fall temperatures until around Thanksgiving.

I’ve only recently started shopping at Cato Fashions.  I don’t know how I missed this gem of a store – it’s less than a mile from my house.

They have a variety of styles and sizes. The price point is GREAT. And the quality is good.

When I am incorporating a new trend into my wardrobe, I like to start with something less expensive to try it out.

And less expensive does not have to mean poor quality.

I’m finding lots of retailers these days that are offering quality items and a lower price.

Straight Leg Pants

Wide leg pants of all kinds are EVERYWHERE. I fear our skinny jeans will soon be a thing of the past.

If you’re not quite ready to embrace the total wide leg, these Style & Co. Curvy Straight High Rise Jeans may be just what your looking for.

The leg is a slim silhouette that isn’t flared but isn’t skinny at the bottom.  The line is so flattering form hip to ankle.

They feel more like a chinos than jeans and seem to be just a little bit dressier. These will be my “go-to” white pants for the summer.

These are a curvy fit and I am wearing my usual Size 16.

Add a Cute Wedge Sandal

These Easy Street Stacy Wedge Sandals from DSW are so cute and comfy.

It has a 1 3/4″ wedge heel, comes in Narrow to Extra Wide Widths and 5 colors.

I’m wearing an 8WW.

Other Embroidered Tops

Looking for more reasonably prices embroidery pieces to add to your wardrobe? Check these out.

 

 

Embroidered Fashion for Women Over 50 was last modified: June 2nd, 2022 by Cathy Lawdanski
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Dress It Up with Black and White

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This outfit came together quite by accident and I love it.

I ordered a bunch of different pieces from a variety of retailers.

Pieces like this Lattice Neck Tunic, which is different from anything I usually wear.

I am trying to stretch myself in my fashion choices. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn’t.

I think this one works.

For size reference I am 5’7″, 195-200 lbs.

Top 12-14 or Large

Bottoms 16 or XL

Shoe 8WW

Dress it Up with a Black Tunic

The Lattice Neck Tunic is from Cato Fashions (also comes in Plus sizes).

I think the lattice neckline is a fabulous detail. And the designers cut it just right so your bra doesn’t show. I am not at all into strapless bras!

It’s shorter and flowy in the front which camflouges the tummy area.

But it’s not so voluminous that it just swallows me. It gently flows past my curves.

I’m wearing a Large.


The tunic goes really long in the back.

Add some white pants

The pants are Simply Vera Vera Wang Simply Modern Ankle Pants (yes that’s the name) from Kohls.

These pants are pull-on (YEA!) I’m wearing and XL.

They come in several colors and in petite, misses and plug sizes.

Neutral heels lengthen your leg

I’m wearing my Easy Street Alize Heeled Sandals.

These neutral sandals with a 2 1/2″ block heel.

The block heel lets me wear a heel while giving me some stability. These sandals go with EVERYTHING.

The sandal comes in 4 colors and wide widths. I’m wearing an 8 1/2 wide.

Shop your closet for some jewelry to add a finishing touch

I also added my Kendra Scott necklace and earrings.

I think this outfit would be perfect for an outdoor wedding, garden party, cocktail party or out to a play.

Super versatile and all the pieces are a great price.

What do you think?

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Coastal Styles for Every Age

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There’s this new trend going around called “Coastal Grandmother”.  It’s a hashtag on Instagram and even a category on the Chico’s website.

Even though I am a grandmother of 4 and know many grandmother’s who dress is a way that is current, stylish and cute, any  fashion trend with the word grandmother in it conjures up images of snap up floral robes and stockings rolled down to the knees.

Maybe it’s just me….

 

Coastal Styles for Every Age

I prefer Coastal Styles for Every Age. Since have lived near the Texas Gulf Coast my whole life, I know a little about coastal attire.

It’s clothes that keep you cool in hot weather.

That are light and breezy and don’t fit too tight.

Clothes that just barely skim your skin that may be a little tender after a day in the sun.

Colors and designs that evoke the coast and the ocean.

This Coastal Style includes the Pima Fossil Finds Elbow Tee (on sale)  and the So Slimming Eyelet Hem Girlfriend Crops.

The sleeves on the tee come down to the elbow for ladies who like a little more upper arm coverage.

The eyelet hem detail on these crops is so unique. I so many compliments on these pants and they go with everything.

I’m wearing a Size 2 in the top and 2.5 in the crops and they are true to size. The crops have some stretch.

The hoop earrings I am wearing are sold out, but these shell shaped summer white seed bead clip-ons are a great option.

 

The Zip-Italy Espadrille Platform Sandal in stone is so cute.

The platform gives you a  little height while still offering the stability you need. It’s like wearing a flat sandal that is a little elevated.

There are a few wide and extra-wide sizes left in this color. I wear 8WW.

Topping off the outfit is this Straw Crossbody from Target.  So CUTE!!!!

Similar Coastal Style Options

Beaded T-Strap Sandals

Tommy Hilfiger Cuffed Shorts in White  (on sale |  Size  up)

Hyacinth Tote Bag

Disc Pendant Necklace

Aria Espadrille Wedge Sandal

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Memorial Day Looks for Every Occasion

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What are your plans for Memorial Day? Backyard barbecue? Time by the water? Travel? I’ve been out of town the last two weekends, so we’ll have a pretty low-key time at home to rest and catch up.

Whatever you have planned, here are some great looks for you. Pick up a couple. One for Memorial Day and save one for the 4th of July!

Memorial Day Maxi

I haven’t worn a maxi since the 70’s,  so this was stepping out of my comfort zone a bit, but I LOVED wearing this!!!

It is so comfy – it’s like wearing a big nightie! I could lounge in this all day!

We had a debate in the family about whether to wear it tied up or not. How would you wear it?

This picture shows the pockets. I’m wearing and XL.

 

The platform sandals are surprisingly comfortable for an inexpensive pair of shoes. My usual size is 8WW. These are 8 1/2 M and fit great.

Maxi | Maxi Plus Size | Stud Strap Flatform Sandals

 

Star Tank and Jeans

You can’t go wrong with this cute tank and a pair jeans. I dressed it up a little with a pearl necklace. For cool nights you could add a denim jacket or cardigan.

I’m wearing XL in the tank. This comes in sizes up to 5XL in lots of different prints.

Star Tank | Jeans (similar)  

Sandals

Nautical Wreath

Shorts, Tank & Kimono

This is my first kimono. Can you believe it? I just never thought I was a “kimono girl”. Don’t you wonder where we get these ideas about ourselves?

I’ve paired it with a navy tank and white shorts. The tank is XL, but it is a little big, so I’d get a L next time. Kimono is L. Shorts run a little small so I sized up to an 18.

Here it is from the back so that you can see the length.

Kimonos are the perfect completer piece for the summer because  they are light & flowy. If you like to  cover your arms, they do the trick without making you hot.

Kimono | Kimono Plus  Size | Tank | Tank Plus Size | Stud Strap Flatform Sandals

Shorts

Tank, Crops and Denim Jacket

This outfit was so fun to put together!

It started with a tie-dye tank (Large) and white eyelet hemmed cropped pants (Size 2.5 Chicos). I like those pants so much, but wasn’t going keep them because I have 3 pair of white jeans already. But they go with everything I own – what’s a girl to do with a hem that cute?

I topped it denim  jacket (Large). If you look at my Instagram feed, you will know that I need another denim jacket like I need a hole in the head…but look at that ruffle detail!!! So feminine and modern!

And then those red wedges (8 1/2  W). I never buy shoes like that but they make this outfit!

Here’s the tank without the jacket.

Here’s what it looks like from the back.

Tank | Plus Size Tank | Crops | Jacket |  Wedges

Shorts & a Tee

Since we’ll be staying home this weekend, this  is  exactly what I’ll be wearing.

A graphic tee (XL), denim shorts (Chico’s 2.5 –  size up. I needed a 3), white kicks

Tee | Shorts | Kicks

So what’s your style?

Are you inspired to try something you don’t usually wear?

Let me  know in the comments.

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Floral Summer Tops for Women Over 50

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Florals are EVERYWHERE for Spring/Summer 2022.

Traditional florals. Modern Florals. Big Florals. Small Florals. Whatever floral suits you, you’ll be able to find a piece that you love.

Floral top styled with white eyelet crops.

 

 

This super-soft  V-neck  Floral Tank from Amazon can be styled in so many ways. It comes in several patterns and sizes small – 3X. I am wearing and XL.

I styled it with  these super cute Brigitte So Slimming Eyelet Hemmed Crops from Chico’s. Size 2.5.

This top is blousy and would look great with a front-tuck. Since I carry most of my weight in the tummy-area, front-tucks are not the most-flattering on me. So I just tucked the tail in my pocket, giving the look a little shape.

LifeStride Tango 2 Espadrille Wedge Sandal – Taupe

I usually wear an 8WW, but this is an 8 1/2 W and fits great.

Comes in 6 colors.

Styled here with the So Slimming Brigitte 10″ Slim Shorts in Calypso Coral – Size 2.5

These shorts are pull on and so-comfy. 5 colors.

 

 

Baretraps Flossey in Soft Gold – 8W.

 

 

So Slimming Girlfriend 7″ Slim Leg Shorts – My usual 2.5 size was a little snug in the waist on these. I suggest sizing up.

 

Beaded T-Strap Sandals

So which is your favorite look? Crops? Bermuda Shorts or the Denim Shorts.

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Floral V-Neck tank styled with crops, Bermuda shorts and denim shorts.

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How To Restore Damaged Nails After Gel, Acrylic or Powder Manicures

 

Perfectly manicured nails. Who doesn’t love the look of the perfect length, shape and color you can get by going to the nail salon every two weeks and “getting your nails done”  with acrylics, a gel or powders? But what happens when you try to go back to your natural nails? All of these methods damage your nails in some way, leaving them dry, brittle, thin and splitting. That’s why so many women go back to the artificial nails. It seems like if you don’t, you’ll never have “nice” nails again.  But there is hope and I have found a way. Here’s how to restore damaged nails after gel, acrylic or powder manicures.

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Why I Wanted to Restore My Nails After Gel Manicures

I love the perfectly shaped nails that didn’t chip, cuticles with no hangnails and long lasting color that I got from my artificial nails. Over the last 15 years, I’ve tried them all – acrylics, gel and powder.



At first, getting my nails done every two weeks was a luxury.  When I started these regular appointments in my 40’s, I had just been promoted to a management position at the nonprofit where I was working. I was making a little money. My boss got her nails done. After years as a stay at home mom with no extra money in the budget for such a luxury, I was ready to treat myself. And for a while, it was great. Until it wasn’t.

At some point, I got tired of sitting in the manicurist’s chair for an hour every two weeks. And I had other things I wanted to spend my money on. So I decided to go back to my natural nails. Except they weren’t the nails that I used to have. They were thin, dry, splitting and brittle. And after a few weeks of looking like that, I just couldn’t stand it anymore, so headed back to the salon to get the artificial ones again. I continued this cycle for 15 years.

A few months ago, I decided once again to try and go “natural”, but before doing so, I asked ladies in my Facebook group who had done this HOW they achieved healthy natural nails again. They encouraged me that it could be done. I also did some research online and came up with this plan that restored my nails to their strong and healthy original state in 8 weeks.

What I Did to Restore My Nails After Gel Manicures

I had the gels removed at the salon, had my nails trimmed short and got a regular manicure.  Here’s how my nails looked on that day.  You can see they are thin, ridged and uneven.

How To Restore Damaged Nails After Gel, Acrylic or Powder Manicures | Picture of two hands on white pillow after powder manicure removed

 

My restore my nails regimen started with applying one coat of nail strengthener daily. I did this for seven days. On the seventh day I removed the nail strengthener and started again.

After the nail strengthener dried, I applied cuticle oil  to my nails and skin around them twice a day. I followed this with a heavy duty hand cream. Why use both an oil and a cream? The oil absorbs into the nail bed better and the cream creates a barrier so that the moisture doesn’t escape.

I left my cuticles alone. I didn’t trim or pick at them because the cuticles are there to protect the new nail growth that is occurring underneath.

If I needed to file my nails for any reason I used a glass nail file. Why? Because a glass nail file smooths and seals the freshly filed edges, reduces the nails susceptibility to splits and breakages.  It does this by sealing the keratin layers at the edge of the nail together, preventing peeling and chipping. A glass nail file is inexpensive and the best investment you can make in restoring your fragile nails.

Other reasons to invest in a glass nail file?

  • They do not dull over time.
  • They are more efficient than emery boards of steel nail files because they file and smooth the nails in one quick motion.
  • They can be washed in hot, soapy water and even sterilized making them more hygenic.
  • Glass nail files will not wear down, corrode or rot.

I went for a manicure every 3 weeks. At that time, I did allow my manicurist to trim my cuticles, but only then. I also had her apply nail strengthen rather than traditional nail polish.

I took a Biotin supplement every day.

Here is how my nails looked at my first manicure, four weeks after removing my gels. Still weak, but looking better.

How To Restore Damaged Nails After Gel, Acrylic or Powder Manicures | Picture of one hand after first manicure three weeks after gel nails removed

I followed my regimen RELIGIOULSY and after 8 weeks, here is what my nails look like.

How To Restore Damaged Nails After Gel, Acrylic or Powder Manicures | Picture of one hand 8 weeks after gel manicure removed

 

I am so pleased with the results! I’m sure I’ll be sporting my natural nails from now on! Yes, you CAN have healthy, natural nails after gel, acrylic or powder manicures!

Do you have your natural nails or do you “get them done”?  Have you ever gone natural after having artificial nails? Let me know in the comments!

 

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Bra Fitting Guide | What To Look For In A Professional Bra Fitting

Have you ever had a professional bra fitting? When I did an informal poll of the My Side of 50 readers, it was split about 50/50. Half said they had been professionally fitted and the other half said they had not. I have to admit, it’s probably only been in the last several years that I’ve started to get professionally fitted and I can’t tell you what a difference it makes! When I was buying bras on my own, I had the size and fit all wrong!  I was recently invited by Soma Intimates to get a professional bra fitting at their store at The Woodlands Mall in Texas.  Here is my Bra Fitting Guide with things you should look for when getting a professional fitting.

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Bra Fitting Guide | More Than Just the Measurement

When getting fitted for a bra, most of us know to measure around our rib cage under our breasts where the bra hooks. And then to measure around the fullest part of our breasts. There are all kinds of calculators online that will help you determine “your size” from these two measurements.  But did you know that the SHAPE of your breasts also determines the size and type of bra you should wear? That’s why getting a professional bra fitting can be such an asset in getting the most comfortable and flattering bra.

Getting the correct measurements is only the first step. At a professional bra fitting, the specialist should also:

  • Ask what type of bras you are looking for. Strapless, racer back, underwire, t-shirt?
  • What do you not like about your current bra?
  • Examine how the bra looks on you. Does the gore (the part between the cups) lay flat against your chest? Do the cups cover your breasts or do they spill out on the side? Do the straps dig into your shoulders?
  • After looking at the bra, the specialist should ask you to put on a shirt to see how it looks under clothes.

My Complimentary Professional Bra Fitting at Soma Intimates

Maranda was the trained bra fit specialist who worked with me at Soma Intimates. She did everything she was supposed to do.  She asked me what type of bra I was looking for, measured me, listened to my concerns, brought me options and adjusted where needed.

The first step was getting measured. I know that for some women, modesty is an issue and they may be uncomfortable being measured by someone else for a bra. In the privacy of the dressing room, Maranda gave me the option of being measured with or without my shirt on.

Then she asked me about what type of bra I was looking for. What my concerns were. About my lifestyle and the types of clothes I wear. I answered those questions for me, but also for all of you. Because prior to my fitting, I asked YOU what YOU hated about your bras! Here are the answers and the solutions Maranda had from the Soma Intimates line:

Bra Fitting Guide | My Straps Dig Into My Shoulders

Stunning Support Full Coverage Bra– This underwire bra has wide set padded straps that make the fit very comfortable through the shoulders. I tried this on and was amazed at the difference a little padding in the straps makes!

Bra Fitting Guide | I Hate UNDERWIRE

I wear a 36DD and always wear underwire bras, which I don’t find to be very comfortable. I really didn’t think I had another option.  But I did! The Enbliss Wireless Bra! Full coverage, super soft fabric and no wires.

I couldn’t believe the support I received from this wireless bra.  And when I put my shirt on over it, I looked like I lost 10 lbs! In the Enbliss Wireless Bra, I am every bit as lifted and supported as I am in my underwires!

Bra Fitting Guide | My Bra is So Uncomfortable I Take It Off the Minute I Get Home

That’s me. And since I work at home, I usually don’t wear a bra. Which is no big deal unless company or the UPS guy shows up unexpectedly!  Enter the Enbliss Wireless Bralette. It’s kind of like a sports bra, but it is not as binding. Super soft and comfortable. Although at a 36DD it did not provide the support I would need to wear it out in public, it is the perfect around the house or sleep bra for me.  And it does provide enough coverage so that I am appropriately attired if someone stops by the house unexpectedly!

Bra Fitting Guide | Bras That Irritate Post Surgery

One of my readers shared that post-radiation, she found her bras to be very irritating to her sensitive skin. Soma has a whole line of post-surgical bras including those with pockets for those women wear prosthetics after a mastectomy.  These bras are soft, comfortable and pretty!

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You have to try the marvelous Vanishing 360 Bra. 

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The two best bras for me were the Enbliss Wireless Bra and Enbliss Wireless Bralette.

And much to my surprise I also purchased SHAPEWEAR! The Vanishing Edge High Waisted Brief. This beautiful panty is so light and is the most comfortable shapewear I have ever put on.

I also stocked up on Soma’s Cool Night’s Short Sleeved Sleep Shirts.  I have worn these for years! They are so light and comfortable to sleep in and when the night sweats hit, they DO keep you cool. They wash beautifully and keep their color and shape for a long time. They also have pajamas in this line that comes in the same fabric.

Has it been a year since you had a professional bra fitting? Or have you never had one at all? Stop by your local Soma Intimates and get one. You will be so happy with the results!

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Bra Fitting Guide | What To Look For In A Professional Bra Fitting was last modified: October 25th, 2022 by Cathy Lawdanski
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4 Expert Thrift Store Shopping Hacks From An Experienced Thrifter

Do you shop at thrift stores? I must admit, I’ve never had much luck with this. But I have been so intrigued by people who find great items at super cheap prices by shopping at thrift stores. One of them is my blogging friend, Jodie from Jodie’s Touch of Style. Jodie’s blog features her mother (80+ model) stepmom (60+ model) and her (50+ model). Today she is giving us her 4 Expert Thrift Store Shopping Hacks.

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I talked about my history with preloved items when thredUp was having their celebration of International Women’s Day, yet I’ve been thrifting far longer than I’ve been blogging.

The first time a friend took me to a thrift store, I was amazed that you could get clothes that were almost new for such a great price. As a sale shopper, I’ve always been price conscious which is a trait that’s been handed down from my mother (the 80+ model on my blog).

So let me give my 4 Expert Thrift Store Shopping Hacks That I’ve Learned Over the Years

This way of shopping is truly a treasure hunt. If you are someone who doesn’t enjoy taking the time to shop or look through a mix of items, then it’s probably not going to float your boat. Yet I will say that taking a friend along can be the best tip ever. Many articles will tell you that a friend may push you into items of styles that you think aren’t you. However, I will say that this can actually help you be more successful in your shopping adventure. I feel that a second set of eyes can open you up to new and even better possibilities that you wouldn’t have considered on your own. Unless I’m the only one that gets into a rut with my clothing choices?

1-Where to shop

Many years ago, you were limited to the second hand and consignment stores in your local area. However, now you can even enjoy them online with companies like thredUp, Poshmark, and eBay. (See Jodie’s tips on shopping at online thrift stores here).

The advantage and yet disadvantage at the same time, is that each store will have different items. If you are shopping in a brick and mortar store, you are most likely going to be getting items that women in the area have donated. Keeping that in mind, it’s fun to explore the second-hand stores when you go traveling to a different place. That can give you an entirely different selection of goods.

I like to say that thrifting can be feast or famine. Your favorite store may have a load of items one time and nothing at another visit. So the best thing to remember is patience. Do not expect to go to the thrift store with only 5 minutes to spare and be successful.

Explore your area for places you never knew about. I have found secondhand stores tucked into a strip mall where I go regularly, yet I never knew they were there.

 

 

2-What to look for

I have a couple of tips for finding the things you need at the second-hand stores.

First, have an open mind when you are going shopping. The worst feeling is to be going with a certain item in mind because rarely will that item be there. That’s where the online thrift stores trump the brick and mortar. You can search for a particular item on most online secondhand shops. That’s how I found my leopard coat on Poshmark.

 

So I find myself having much more success if I go to the store with no expectations and ready to explore everything.

That being said, I do think it’s handy to have an ongoing list of items you wished you could find. This isn’t like a grocery list which you will finish each time you go shopping. This will be one that you may or may not find the items for a year or two depending on the season and what is available. I keep this list on my phone in my notes. When I think of something I’d like, I add it to the list. And this also helps me when I’m shopping at retail stores too.

Don’t discount items that aren’t the perfect fit. Because just like at retail stores, most of us should have 50-80% of our purchases altered to make them fit us better. I’ve learned this from my mother who was in professional alterations for years. You may think that it would be silly to spend money to alter an item that cost you so little in the first place. Sometimes, you can even spend more on the alterations than the piece. However, this is the ideal time to spend that money, because in reality, then the price of the full item including alterations is still affordable as long as it’s something you’ll wear a lot.

Before you purchase an item or even consider having it altered, you need to examine the piece really well and make sure to try it on. Many consignment stores are dark or the fitting rooms aren’t well lit. It’s important to inspect the pieces thoroughly because these items aren’t new, and you can’t usually return them. In saying that, some stores have a return policy so it’s good to ask, and I know that thredUp is one of those. For example, I bought a maxi skirt at a Goodwill store and once I got it home, I noticed the bottom hem was dirty and worn. Luckily, I needed to shorten it anyway, so no harm done. But I will caution you to turn the item all around and even inside out to see what kind of shape it’s in before you buy it.

Make a point to look around the entire store. I used to only check out the clothing items when I shopped at thrift stores. However, you can miss out on many fun accessories, or even home decor if you don’t look around.

3-Thought Process as I’m shopping

Now that we had our colors analyzed, I’m trying to be better about only getting new pieces of clothing that look great on me. I limit this to the tops, jackets, sweaters, and scarves that are going to be close to my face.

One question I always ask when I pick out an item is do I already have this or a version of it? What I have noticed, is when we “like” something at the stores, many times it’s because we already have something like it in our closets. For example, my mother is a white blouse collector, and we’ve ascertained that she does not need another one for another 10 years. (That doesn’t mean she won’t buy one…haha). But it’s a good question to think about when you’re shopping. It’s only normal to like the items that appeal to you. Therefore you may already have one just like it in your closet.

I know many women will ask themselves if they can style it with 3 different outfits before they buy an item. This is one time, that I think it’s fine to break this rule. Due to the fact that you aren’t paying full price, you can “splurge.” Not every item in our closet has to function in many different ways. And it’s a perfect time to try something “unusual” or “not your style.”

4-Best things to buy at thrift stores

Before I started blogging, I didn’t know brands and labels very well, so I always just bought what I liked. And that’s perfectly fine. But if you like a certain brand more than others, then it’s great to search for that brand of clothing. For example, many women love Chicos or WHBM, and I’ve seen these brands often where I shop. There are even times you will find the higher end brands that you may covet, yet don’t feel comfortable spending the money on at retail stores.  A couple of years ago, I came across a pair of Stuart Weitzman sandals at Goodwill for $7. They are a classic color and style, and I wear them to this day.

This is the best time to find classic and non-trendy items. For example, I’m always on the lookout for a great striped shirt and gingham blouse. But don’t forget to check the men’s section too. If you don’t mind buttoning shirts the opposite way, this can offer you more possibilities.

That being said, if you do spot a trendy item at the thrift store, this could be the time to get it. Just in case, the trend doesn’t stick around for long or you don’t wear it much after you bring it home, at least you didn’t spend a lot on it.

Have you ever wondered if the high-end denim is really worth it? Well, this could be the perfect time to try it out, yet not pay the high prices. If you don’t know which denim is high end or not, you can always google the brand while you’re in the store and compare prices.

I think this is the best time to purchase a special event dress or purse if you come across it. Most of our special event dresses or clutches only get worn a couple of times, so it feels like a waste to spend a boatload of money on these purchases. I found a metallic dress at Goodwill once that I wore to such a gala.

 

I’ve even since learned to style it casually so I can get more uses out of it. However, even if I hadn’t done this, I wouldn’t feel so bad since I paid under $10 for it.

Conclusion

A couple of questions people have asked me is whether everything is washed when you buy it at these stores. Most places ask you to donate clean items; however, I make sure to wash most everything when I get home. If an item is dry clean only, then I may Febreeze it or put it in the dryer with Dryel.

Remember, that second-hand shopping can be a fun experience. Especially when you can find such great treasures at wonderful prices when you are thrifting. Not only are you saving money, but you are also helping out the environment by reusing items instead of having them go to the landfills.

Are you excited when you walk into your closet to find something to wear or is a totally frustrating experience? Take the From Frustration to Functional Closet Challenge! This totally FREE challenge from the folks at Adore Your Wardrobe will give you lots of tips to help you love the wardrobe you have and a closet that functions for you! 

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4 Expert Thrift Store Shopping Hacks From An Experienced Thrifter was last modified: August 17th, 2022 by Jodie Filogomo
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